The thing I complain most about is my husband not finishing projects. At least, not on my time frame. You see, I am a person that has to be busy and my husband is the opposite. He knows how to relax, a little too much in my opinion.
What he considers nagging, I consider doing and completing things in a timely manner. He will tell me he is going to remodel the bathroom and will start doing it, but then he stalls and stalls and stalls. Like, literally, he started the bathroom over a year ago and it is still not complete. This drives me nuts. I try to be patient, but a year? Come on, there is a problem somewhere. He goes out and buys all the material for it plus much more, then it sits in the shed for ions. The more I complain it seems the more he stalls, but I stopped complaining to see if that would help. It did not help one bit. In fact, it got worse.
I lose my patience waiting on him to finish something which does nothing to help the issue, but what am I to do? Everytime I walk in that bathroom, I get so agitated with him. I’m looking at a half done room which was promised to be completed within a month. How am I not to get upset?
It seems like all I do is moan & groan about everything. I guess I do, but I have a right to be upset. At times, I call someone out to finish something he started and that makes me even more upset. Not only have I waited this long, but the money spent when it shouldn’t have been is enough to push anyone over the edge. I just don’t get it.
He is a wonderful husband in every other way, but this one thing makes my blood boil. I guess I should be thankful for everything else and I am, but don’t promise me something and then not do it. I have big issues with that and occasionally let him know what I think. Again, nothing good comes from that, but when enough is enough, I just flip.
I do not complain about much, but this one trait I nag and nag and nag about in hopes to garner his attention, but it never does. Day after day, I just get nuttier and crazier while he just lays back and does whatever he feels like doing.
Maybe one day we can find a happy medium, but for now nagging it is and a whole lot of it.
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