Time has a way, especially when life throws a curve ball, of bringing wisdom albeit a little late. Time is not the problem. I am the problem. Time just gives me a new perspective on the situation. Such as I should have said something, but now it is too late because the person has passed on from this life. I should learn a lesson from this, but time rolls on always catching me off guard and muttering the words, ‘I should have _____’. The blank can be filled with any number of things that I should have done or said, but didn’t.
This does not apply to only those that pass on. It applies to many things. Such as I should have helped out with that project because the ones that did have been well rewarded. Or I should have said I’m sorry because now that person has moved on. Or I should have just about anything. Time is a teacher if only I would just listen and act before times final visit. Time is patient and gives ample opportunity to all people to right wrongs now. Sadly, most of us do not listen and are left with only what could have beens.
I have, a time or two, heeded times calling but more times than not pride gets in the way and I push time away with a prideful stance. Significant events or the death of someone close will cause pride to take a back seat while I ponder what could have been. These times are hard lessons that cannot be righted.
The saying ‘Time heals all wounds’ just is not true. So, if any one happens to be reading these words can learn something now before time comes to pay his final visit, I leave you with something I wish I had been given or maybe had been given – just didn’t take heed to. Here it is, ‘Do it now before it’s too late’, whatever it is: a letter, a phone call or text, a hug, a I’m sorry or the many other things it might be. You will save yourself much unnecessary heartache and avoid the dread of the Visitor’s visit.
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